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Wednesday, December 19, 2012
Christmas Traditions
Now that Rico understands a little more we are trying to create some traditions that stick. We have been reading the scriptures and going over the nativity almost every day. We get out our little nativity scene to hopefully give him a mental picture. (Our nativity scene is one that J got while on his mission in Guatemala. All the pieces are VERY bright but I love that we can see Guatemalan culture in them)
We are singing Christmas songs nearly every day, playing Christmas music. Rico loves to go look at the lights and Deddy loves to stare out the window. I love how lights glisten!
We do three Christmas' per year. One with my mom and step-dad, one with my dad and step-mom and one with J's family. With his family we do Bingo on Christmas Eve and buy funny gifts for each other. Then on Christmas day we have a wonderful dinner. We will also be playing in J's sister's piano recital, going to see his sister in Salt Lake City and we are going to see the lights at Temple Square. I have never done this and I'm so excited to see how beautiful they are and to feel the spirit of Christmas on temple square.
Rico is beginning to wean. I have been going back and forth on this for a LONG time. But we are going down to nursing once per day. Today was rough. It was the first day. It was so rough in fact that he watched Thomas the Tank Engine. Twice. I hope it gets easier. I love the nursing relationship, but I feel like Deddy needs his own time. Rico is constantly getting involved in Deddy's nursing time and sometimes I just want to hold Deddy close and just be with him. So before another baby shows up, I would like to have some one-on-one time with Deddy. Rico had a year and a half. Hopefully it's the right decision!
Here is what Rico sees during Christmas:
We are singing Christmas songs nearly every day, playing Christmas music. Rico loves to go look at the lights and Deddy loves to stare out the window. I love how lights glisten!
We do three Christmas' per year. One with my mom and step-dad, one with my dad and step-mom and one with J's family. With his family we do Bingo on Christmas Eve and buy funny gifts for each other. Then on Christmas day we have a wonderful dinner. We will also be playing in J's sister's piano recital, going to see his sister in Salt Lake City and we are going to see the lights at Temple Square. I have never done this and I'm so excited to see how beautiful they are and to feel the spirit of Christmas on temple square.
Rico is beginning to wean. I have been going back and forth on this for a LONG time. But we are going down to nursing once per day. Today was rough. It was the first day. It was so rough in fact that he watched Thomas the Tank Engine. Twice. I hope it gets easier. I love the nursing relationship, but I feel like Deddy needs his own time. Rico is constantly getting involved in Deddy's nursing time and sometimes I just want to hold Deddy close and just be with him. So before another baby shows up, I would like to have some one-on-one time with Deddy. Rico had a year and a half. Hopefully it's the right decision!
Here is what Rico sees during Christmas:
Thursday, December 6, 2012
Lifestyle Change
WOW. Thanksgiving/November really took a lot out of us and was very busy. My parents came in from Colorado for Thanksgiving. We completely changed our eating habits and Deddy turned one yesterday. B.U.S.Y.
Anyway, change of eating habits. I am really not quite sure how to define ourselves now. We aren't vegetarian, aren't quite vegan but have cut out all animal meat, dairy and dairy byproducts and eggs. Let me first begin by stating why we have changed our eating habits.
I have known for a couple of years that our eating habits needed to change. We really didn't eat too much meat. Just about the only time we had any type of red meat was either when someone else made it for us or if we were out to dinner (which is a rarity!). Mainly we ate turkey and had a lot of vegetarian dishes for dinner. We followed Dr. Christopher's mucusless diet for a few months before I became pregnant with Deddy and I just needed to eat anything that I didn't make. My cooking went and so did the diet.
A couple of months ago we watched some animal slaughterhouse videos on YouTube. I would recommend not watching any of these if you want to continue eating your McDonald's double cheeseburger without any guilt (if I had written this post 2 months ago my mouth would have been watering because I was missing these so much. Gross, but oh.so.good.).
After we cut out all fast food, next up was meat altogether. Heavenly Father tends to lead J and I in a direction pretty swiftly so this happened within a couple of weeks. I/We (and by that I mean I and then I tell J so it becomes we) were studying in Doctrine and Covenants section 89 and re-reading the section about eating meat.
12 Yea, flesh of the beasts and of the fowls of the air, I, the Lord, have ordained for the use of man with thanksgiving; nevertheless they are to be used sparingly;
13 And it is pleasing unto me that they should not be used, only in times of winter, or of cold, or famine.
To be completely honest, we thought we were using meat sparingly. I think most people in the church think that even if they eat it with three meals. No, we did not eat meat with every meal, but several times a week. And can I say that it was with thanksgiving? No.
So let's jump to Genesis chapter 9. The Lord is speaking to Noah. I believe this fits quite nicely with the D&C reference above. I'm using the Joseph Smith translation. I love when I am confused by something in the Bible. Usually there is a JS translation that takes away all confusion (For those who don't know, the Bible has been translated several times and some of the meaning and different scriptures have been changed. When Joseph Smith restored Christ's church he was also commanded by Heavenly Father to go through the Bible and translate certain scriptures to their original wording. We use the King James Version and believe it to be the most correct translation.). Joseph Smith's changes are italicized.
10 But, the blood of all flesh which I have given you for meat, shall be shed upon the ground, which taketh life thereof, and the blood ye shall not eat.
11 And surely, blood shall not be shed, only for meat, to save your lives; and the blood of every beast will I require at your hands.
We read that and thought well that makes sparingly seem even more..well...sparingly. If I am to only eat meat to save my life, and in the D&C scripture quoted above only in times of winter, cold or famine (which in most parts of the world would result in saving lives) then why were we eating it a few times a week? If the Lord has said that we would be held accountable to all the animals we eat, then would eating meat be necessary for survival?
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The next morning J told me he couldn't sleep the night before thinking about all of the animals lined up in heaven. Animals that he had eaten or taken bits and pieces out of. Not a pretty picture, but we decided we didn't want to answer for any more unless it was so save ourselves. Now, let me clarify. We did have Thanksgiving. There was a turkey for my parents. We have been trying to find the fine line between not eating meat and also not wasting it if it is there anyway. What to do? We did take a few bites of the turkey so it wouldn't be wasted (after a few days of it being in the fridge) and there were some organic bacon pieces in the green beans that may have made it to my mouth.
We have also watched a couple documentaries. The first being Forks Over Knives. We were convinced of the ill effects of dairy after watching that movie. J asked when we would be cutting it out and we did that day.
The reason I say we aren't fully vegan is because when we are out to dinner, we will probably have some cheese or cream or something of the sort in the food we eat. Both of us do not feel like eating any kind of meat. If we are invited to dinner (again, a rarity) and meat is served we will not scoff but instead be thankful that someone was willing to provide a meal for us. So I can't say we are fully vegan. I don't want any meat wasted. I don't want any life to be wasted. But I also don't want to be responsible for those animals lives. Where is the line drawn???
J has lost 13lbs in 3 weeks, I've lost 2 (I don't really have any to lose so 2 makes a difference. haha). We both have more energy, and have found some AMAZING food to eat. I'm actually eating vegetables and liking them and we both feel very good. Another up side, I really do feel like we were prompted to change our eating habits. And by following that prompting I do feel like I gained more of a testimony for revelation and also that Heavenly Father is watching out for our family and what our health needs are. I know everyone is entitled to their own revelation so this is what we have personally interpreted the scriptures to mean for our family! Everyone has the right to interpret it differently and to make their own choices! Oh, wonderful AGENCY!
(Oh yeah, and my milk supply has never been better!!)
Let's end with the promises of following the Word of Wisdom fully (Doctrine and Covenants 89):
18 And all saints who remember to keep and do these sayings, walking in obedience to the commandments, shall receive health in their navel and marrow to their bones;
21 And I, the Lord, give unto them a promise, that the destroying angel shall pass by them, as the children of Israel, and not slay them. Amen.
Tuesday, November 13, 2012
Responsibility
Letting Rico learn responsibility is hard. It is harder I think for me than it would be for him. It is way easier to pick toys up myself, put his clothes on him myself, carry him to the car, etc.
I have been making a concerted effort to allow him his time with getting things done. I am not perfect! I am not good at this every day! However, he has finally learned to dress himself. Underwear, socks, pants, shirt. Everything but the jacket. He does a really great job and he was SO proud of himself the first time he did it--he is still proud every day he does this. I have been trying to make him pick up toys before moving on to another activity. This is probably the hardest thing because he changes his mind so often. Lately, we pick up toys before lunch/nap and again before dinner and then the final time before bed.
Deddy is now sleeping in his room so now it is THEIR room. The first night Rico was excited the crib was in there. Then when we were walking out of the room and not taking Deddy with us, he became upset. He calmed down after J told him that he once shared a room with his brother. He talked about that for a few days and seemed to think he was pretty cool to be able to share a room with his own brother. Each night they play. And by play I mean Rico hides under the crib and takes Deddy's bear and then throws it back into the crib. They laugh for a long time before they finally decide they are too tired and both pass out in odd positions.
We were planning to do a floor bed with Deddy but, because he hasn't learned the stairs yet, and Rico's door is open to allow him to use the bathroom at night, we do not want him falling down the stairs. I think when he can walk and use the stairs we will transition to the floor bed. Also, Deddy needs to be able to fend Rico off of him when he is getting too rough.
Deddy still acts so much like a baby and is going to be one year old in a couple of weeks. They both develop so differently and I LOVE that Deddy is still my little baby. Rico was an adult at 10 months--so having a little baby longer is perfect.
During the week we clean something together nearly every day. Rico is helpful. He helps carry laundry, dust, sweep and vacuum. I will try to get pictures of this soon. Having a schedule has been very helpful. I feel like I have time to clean, cook, play, read, etc.
10-11:30: Play, books, walk. (Deddy usually naps at this time so Rico and I have one-on-one time)
11:30: Lunch
4-5: Pick up toys/make dinner
I have been making a concerted effort to allow him his time with getting things done. I am not perfect! I am not good at this every day! However, he has finally learned to dress himself. Underwear, socks, pants, shirt. Everything but the jacket. He does a really great job and he was SO proud of himself the first time he did it--he is still proud every day he does this. I have been trying to make him pick up toys before moving on to another activity. This is probably the hardest thing because he changes his mind so often. Lately, we pick up toys before lunch/nap and again before dinner and then the final time before bed.
Deddy is now sleeping in his room so now it is THEIR room. The first night Rico was excited the crib was in there. Then when we were walking out of the room and not taking Deddy with us, he became upset. He calmed down after J told him that he once shared a room with his brother. He talked about that for a few days and seemed to think he was pretty cool to be able to share a room with his own brother. Each night they play. And by play I mean Rico hides under the crib and takes Deddy's bear and then throws it back into the crib. They laugh for a long time before they finally decide they are too tired and both pass out in odd positions.
We were planning to do a floor bed with Deddy but, because he hasn't learned the stairs yet, and Rico's door is open to allow him to use the bathroom at night, we do not want him falling down the stairs. I think when he can walk and use the stairs we will transition to the floor bed. Also, Deddy needs to be able to fend Rico off of him when he is getting too rough.
Deddy still acts so much like a baby and is going to be one year old in a couple of weeks. They both develop so differently and I LOVE that Deddy is still my little baby. Rico was an adult at 10 months--so having a little baby longer is perfect.
During the week we clean something together nearly every day. Rico is helpful. He helps carry laundry, dust, sweep and vacuum. I will try to get pictures of this soon. Having a schedule has been very helpful. I feel like I have time to clean, cook, play, read, etc.
Our LOOSE schedule:
7:30-9: Do lesson from the nursery manual (HE LOVES THIS), read scriptures, get dressed, eat breakfast.
9-10: Clean 10-11:30: Play, books, walk. (Deddy usually naps at this time so Rico and I have one-on-one time)
11:30: Lunch
12:00-2ish: Rico's Nap, one-on-one time with Deddy
2-4: Play, walk, bake/cook4-5: Pick up toys/make dinner
This has really helped me be a more productive mom and has actually helped me feel like I get to play with the boys more often which is what they need most anyway. But I don't have to feel like I am neglecting my other responsibilities of keeping a nice home and making delicious food. I should have done this a LONG time ago. So while I'm trying to teach Rico responsibility I'm really only teaching myself...or it's Heavenly Father teaching me responsibility. Yes, that must be it!
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